Books You Should Read to Boost Your Self-Confidence
The fear of failure and lack of self-confidence is what will hold someone from achieving his dreams. Working on building self-confidence and self-esteem is the way to overcome that fear. Edward Cummings, the American poet, said, “Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.”There are many ways to boost self-confidence and self-esteem. However, I would propose reading books from experts in the field of psychology, vulnerability, courage, shame, and empathy to take input in general on this topic. Reading books will take a person out of daily routine, plans, dreams into another esteem of fighting fears and self-confidence. I suggest reading the following authentic books from experts in the field of self-esteem.
The Gifts of Imperfection By Brene Brown
Professor Brené Brown, the American scholar, author, and public speaker researched vulnerability, courage, shame, and empathy for the last fifteen years. Professor Brown authored the number one New York Times bestsellers (2010) “The Gifts of Imperfection” to share ten guideposts on the power of Wholehearted Living, a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness. Brown engages the reader’s minds, hearts, and spirits while exploring the way people can cultivate the courage, bravery, worthy, compassion, and connection to boost self-confidence.The book is an illustration on how to let go of whom you think, supposed to be, and how to embrace who you are. Everyday people face a barrage of images and messages from the society and media implying who, what, and how people should be leading people to believe that looking perfect result in perfect lives and adequacy. Implying such thoughts lead people to ask questions such as, "Why is not everyone else working harder and living up to my expectations? What will people think if I fail or give up? When can I stop proving myself?"
Daring Greatly By Brene Brown
A one million copy and number one New York Times bestseller of 2015. Dr. Brené Brown offers a transformative new vision for the way people lead, love, work, and parent, which teaches people the power of vulnerability. Dr. Brown dispels the cultural myth that vulnerability is weakness and argues that it is, in truth, our most accurate measure of courage. Every day people experience the uncertainty, risks, and emotional exposure that define what it means to be vulnerable or to dare greatly.Theodore Roosevelt, the 26th president of the United States, inspired Dr. Brené Brown to name the book (Daring Greatly) when he said, “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who at best knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who at worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly.” Dr. Brown explains how vulnerability is the core of (fear, grief, and disappointment) and the birthplace of (love, belonging, joy, empathy, innovation, and creativity). Daring greatly is not about winning or losing, but courage and powerful new vision for letting ourselves be seen.
The Power of Now By Eckhart
The Power of Now is the best seller in Canada, first published in 1997 for the author Eckhart Tolle. The author message is simple: living the moment is the actual path to happiness and enlightenment. The author clear writing, supportive voice and enthusiasm make this an excellent manual for anyone who has ever wondered what exactly "living the moment" means.Tolle is an outstanding teacher who explains complicated concepts in concrete language. More importantly, while reading this book, readers will be holding the world at a different level, more conscious of how thoughts and emotions get in the way of their ability to live in genuine peace and happiness. Tolle immersed much information and inspirational ideas into his book including the source of Chi, enlightened relationships, creative use of the mind, impermanence and the cycle of life.
Boundaries By Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
The Gold Medallion award-winning Christian book, by two psychologists who have written some self-help guides, offers a realistic, compassionate plan for setting healthy boundaries with family, friends, and co-workers. The authors sold nearly one million copies of this book (Boundaries: When to Say Yes; How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life) in 2016.The authors examine how conservative people should set and maintain proper boundaries, that is saying yes and no at the appropriate times. Those who cannot say no are unhappy because people take advantage of them. The symptoms of unhappiness include feeling unappreciated, disrespected, stressed, and exhausted from doing too much at home and work. Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible.
The Power of Your Subconscious Mind By Dr. Joseph Murphy
Dr. Murphy explains the tools people need to unlock the awesome powers of the subconscious mind to improve their relationships, finances, and physical well-being. Once a person learns how to use the unbelievably powerful force, then he can accomplish everything. The book is an excellent reference to the powers of the subconscious techniques. Which will help a person to lay hold of a miracle-working power to lift up confusion, misery, melancholy, failure, and boost self-confidence. Once achieved, a person can solve difficulties; relieve emotional and physical bondage, achieve happiness, and peace of mind.