There can be unfair situations that happen within our lives that can cause us to challenge our identity and our beliefs. Who am I? What do I really want? Also, there can be people who may say things about you that are untrue. Rumors and false beliefs can be spread by others, which can cause us to question ourselves. However, when this happens, you must remember to hold true to what you know about yourself.
Remain Authentic & Be Who You Are
If you are a kind, honest, and true individual, hold true to this. Continue to be kind to people, and simply move away from those who mistreat you instead of seeking revenge. It is important to remain authentic to who you are and to remain a person of integrity. However, it is also important to be assertive and to begin to speak your mind.
Grow From Your Experience
No matter what people may say or think of you, it is important to be who you are. It is better to be disliked for who you are instead of being liked for who you are not. People within your life may continue to let you down; however, take this as a life experience and grow from it. Always remember that God knows your heart and He knows the truth.
Focus on the Truth
To live the best possible life, you must remain true to yourself, your dreams, and your desires. It is important not to get distracted by individuals who seem to be against you and only focus on who you are and God’s purpose for your life. When you have experienced disappointment and hurt from those who have betrayed you, this might harden your heart a bit. However, remember how you are feeling. If you are genuinely kind, then you will not desire for others to experience the heartache you are feeling. Despite how broken you may feel, kindness is not a weakness but a strength. Eventually, you will begin to attract better, kinder individuals into your life who can appreciate the authentic person that you are.